Dr. Kamini Patel

  Do we really Heal? H eal! Time Heals everything, you shall heal … and these proverbs go on, but do we really heal? We are fools to believe that we are healing and that our heart would start to breathe again like a small child. A scientific study shows that heart actually aches when we are hurt. We believe that we have the best regenerative powers that would over write our brain and heart with new memories and slowly the old ones would fade away like a floppy disk. Does it work that way? Being in the field of new life and birth we come across multiple stories where in the counselling sessions are filled with tears and joy for both patient and us. Sometimes we feel like that the walls of Vani IVF, has more in its diary than our hearts. One such story is about Mr. and Mrs. Fernandes. There was something in their story that took us to back to beer shacks in Goa. I would never forget that afternoon when they came in for the counselling session. With every minute they spoke about t...

 R elations, an integral part of humans. Relations are everchanging and ever sweethearts in our lives. Maybe we don’t know but our lives revolve and evolve around them.   Relations are fragile which basically balances itself on a thin string. If we peep into the history all the major turn points are based on the fact “saving relations.” Why is it so important for us to save the relations? Why do we protect relations more than our self-esteem? Why does it matter to have anyone with us? Does being alone hurt that much? Probably we will never be able to answer any of these questions unless we experience being alone or experience any moment where we have to choose between oneself and relations. I guess our hearts will always crave in the evening for the song “ किसका रस्ता देखे , ऐ दिल , ऐ सौदाई ?” Today’s blog is about Mr. and Mrs. Desai, sweet, peace-loving couple. Mr. Desai would go to his job every day and Mrs. Desai would complete the homely matters. No expectations,...

      Breaking the Silence S ilence, a word that initiates a trigger in our mind. It does not make sound but has the power to surrender oneself. Silence may give us a comfortable space to live or sometimes it just gives numbness. Silence may show the powerful side of one or may depict depression of another. It may show a sign of adjustment or an adjustment with a grief of compromise on self-respect. They say silence is the symbol of strength, does this count even when silence suffocates a relation? This blog has been started to share the stories of infertility warriors. Infertility warriors, word is used very casually now but no one understands the pain, agony, disappointments behind sufferings. Couple becomes an infertility warrior when they fight against the society and their internal insecurities just to simply enjoy the joy of parenthood. Parenthood is a blessing which only us humans, homo sapiens have been given. Somehow if we think we all live to reproduce. R...