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Do we really Heal?

  Do we really Heal? H eal! Time Heals everything, you shall heal … and these proverbs go on, but do we really heal? We are fools to believe that we are healing and that our heart would start to breathe again like a small child. A scientific study shows that heart actually aches when we are hurt. We believe that we have the best regenerative powers that would over write our brain and heart with new memories and slowly the old ones would fade away like a floppy disk. Does it work that way? Being in the field of new life and birth we come across multiple stories where in the counselling sessions are filled with tears and joy for both patient and us. Sometimes we feel like that the walls of Vani IVF, has more in its diary than our hearts. One such story is about Mr. and Mrs. Fernandes. There was something in their story that took us to back to beer shacks in Goa. I would never forget that afternoon when they came in for the counselling session. With every minute they spoke about t...
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Life after Life... A story to remember.

Life after Life  I n about 795.09 crores people staying on this globe, our job is to find that one person we can call home, yet our entire life goes by choosing that one person. Why is it so difficult to call them ours? Has our check list got longer or has it turned tougher for anyone to fit? Over the years, we have upgraded ourselves from “holding hands on engagement date” to “Situation-ships even at the age of 16.” May be love has different form, age and shape now but the core meaning and feeling of holding hand for the first time will always remain old school.  May be eating Maska bun and Irani chai at Bombay café has lost its cool now, but the first date shall remain unaltered corner in the hearts forever. May be first rain is no more under umbrellas, but the first rain under the car roof still gives butterflies. One such story, is of Dr. Shah and Mrs. Shah, a perfect Maska ban chai couple. Seeing them reminds us of those old handwritten love letters, footpath vali chai a...

Relations are Brittle

 R elations, an integral part of humans. Relations are everchanging and ever sweethearts in our lives. Maybe we don’t know but our lives revolve and evolve around them.   Relations are fragile which basically balances itself on a thin string. If we peep into the history all the major turn points are based on the fact “saving relations.” Why is it so important for us to save the relations? Why do we protect relations more than our self-esteem? Why does it matter to have anyone with us? Does being alone hurt that much? Probably we will never be able to answer any of these questions unless we experience being alone or experience any moment where we have to choose between oneself and relations. I guess our hearts will always crave in the evening for the song “ किसका रस्ता देखे , ऐ दिल , ऐ सौदाई ?” Today’s blog is about Mr. and Mrs. Desai, sweet, peace-loving couple. Mr. Desai would go to his job every day and Mrs. Desai would complete the homely matters. No expectations,...